Christopher Robin and Losing One’s Self

There's many themes in the latest release from Disney - Christopher Robin - themes of growing up, forgetting the carefree attitude of a child, or even the loss of innocence in war. However, there is one theme that struck me right across the face and left me a blubbering mess throughout the movie, and that was the theme of losing one’s self.  From here on out  - if you haven't seen the movie and don't want anything spoiled - stop reading and go enjoy the movie.  I'll be here when you come back.

Ok, so for those of you who have just come back from seeing this adorable film, let's discuss what I alluded to in the opening. Christopher Robin, the film, is a great addition to the Disney film archives. The details are wonderful, the animation and look of the film is unique and breathtaking, and the theme of growing up and losing the innocence of childhood are all packed beautifully into this 2 hour film. Yet, there was just a little bit more that I connected with, and that's the idea of what it means to not be yourself.  Struggling with mental illness, as many people do, I have been in a deep, dark hole where I cannot even recognize myself as I used to be. It's during those times, when the sadness is constant and the depression feels so great, that I look at myself and I don't understand how I became this person. I then question if I can ever be that happy person that I once was, what feels like so many years ago.  

When Christopher finds himself in a deep hole, literally, I couldn't help but see my feelings illustrated on the big screen. Here he was, this man who had just lost his best friend because of how he acted - instead of being the fun, imaginative boy, Christopher was an angry, loud monster - stuck in a deep hole and unable to climb his way out.  We hear Pooh tell Christopher to not let him go. Behind the tears that this immediately brought to my eyes, I could almost hear my own friends say the same thing - don't let go.  Don't let go of who you were and don't let go of the people who are in your life to help you.  It is easy to isolate and stay stuck down in the hole by yourself, but in the end, this accomplishes nothing and leaves you even more alone than how you felt you were before getting stuck down there in the first place.  

So there we are - Christopher has turned into the monster, has lost all his friends, and he is stuck in a deep hole.  Luckily a little (or rather a lot) of water comes to lift him out of the hole. Then he must go and find his friend because he realizes that he was wrong - water once again giving us the symbol of rebirth and renewal.  On the way to find his best friend, Christopher finds others who also once knew him long ago, but they don't recognize him now. They cannot see behind the darkness that has transformed Christopher from the young happy child into this gloomy adult, and so it is up to Christopher to show them that he does remember how to imagine and play. Once he does this, once he opens himself up and becomes vulnerable, they can finally see that, yes, this is the person they once knew as their friend. On the surface, this comes off as a simple game of make believe, yet the reality of getting out of the hole and learning to act as you once did, happy and carefree, is a longer process. Sometimes it's something you have to fake - pretend to be happy until you are - and then you can see that the you that everyone remembers, the real you, is still there behind the darkness that wants to turn you into something that you are not. 

Christopher's journey in the movie is a shortened version of what people like me are going through, but the end result is the beacon of hope at the end of the tunnel.  His friends helped him in his time of need and, despite having much to deal with in his own life, Christopher realized that putting his friends and family first helped him become a better person than he had turned into. Christopher changes by the end of the film because he learns that certain things in life matter more than others. But the beautiful thing about all of this is that he could not have come to this realization on his own - it took the persistence of a great friend to keep pursuing him, to keep sticking around, and to keep taking steps to make sure that Christopher got the help he needed.  While Pooh's help comes off as clumsy or accidentally helpful, we know that without him being there, Christopher does not see the error of his ways and does not turn his life around.  Of course it's a movie perfect ending, but the hope that this hardship in life will pass and the days will be sunny again is truly what makes it all worth it. And, of course, the guarantee of friends being there for you at the end of your darkness makes the journey out of it all the much more worth it.

So, if you're like Christopher, trust that there is something better for you out there, but you need to be willing to let go of the darkness and the belief that this is just how life has to be for now. You have to be willing to attempt to get out of the hole. If you're like Pooh and have a friend who you can see is losing their selves, please, don't give up on them - your light may be the thing that leads them out of the darkness. 

The Incredibles - Women Centered Film, Written by a Man

Fourteen years ago, a superhero movie was released and has been one of the best family superhero movies to date - The Incredibles.  While the film is very much centered on Mr. Incredible's journey, there is also an element in the film that may be overlooked- that of female roles.  Despite being written by a man and coming out in 2004, The Incredibles is very much a woman-centric film. Let’s dig in a bit.

One of the main issues this movie tackles is gender equality and it does this better than most animated movies.  At the start of the movie we see Mrs. Incredible, aka Elastigirl, as a superhero in her own right. The movie demonstrates that it is possible for her keep her own identity even while wearing additional hats as a wife and mother - she never allows those hats to overtake who she was in the opening of the film- they simply add to who she is. This can be a tough thing for women, as it is so easy to put your family’s needs before your own (even down to the simple act of not putting makeup on to leave the house because the kids/the schedule won’t allow you to).  We see that Mrs. Incredible keeps the family together - the kids are taken care of, the house is unpacked and cleaned, and she even tries to make sure her husband is involved in the kids’ lives. You get the impression that if Mrs. Incredible were out of the picture, the family would crumble into chaos (which makes the premise for Incredibles 2 very interesting). She is the epitome of the strength that Mr. Incredible is so fearful of not having enough of, which makes his fear of losing his family or having them injured so crippling to his actions.  Mrs. Incredible only has one moment of vulnerability, which she is quickly snapped out of by her friend Edna Mode (a true girlfriend indeed). While the situation of tracking down her husband (and having her children stow away on the plane heading into danger) would typically be one to send many of us into a panic attack with anxiety up the wazoo, she is calm and collected. The writers don’t put her into the “typical” woman mold - thankfully.  Instead, she is shown that she was, in fact, stronger than her husband - demonstrating that physical strength will not always be enough.

The movie also addresses other themes facing girls/women, including being confident in yourself, as we learn from Violet.  She is like many females, especially young teens, who don’t necessarily like who they are and/or are not comfortable with who they are because they don’t fit a certain mold (the pretty popular type). Of course once she accepts who she is, she excels as both a superhero, a sister, a daughter, and even a teenager (date with Tony). While this is not necessarily a theme only for the modern age, it is quite appropriate for the modern female.  It seems that only recently have girls been encouraged to be themselves, whether this pertains to body shape/appearance or being comfortable pursuing a career or a family. Violet is shown that it is important to love herself and embrace her “flaws” as these are not necessarily things to hide, but things to embrace. Once she allows herself to do this, she is free to just be herself, which is more than good enough.

Additionally, the movie has your typical woman side-kick in Mirage, but she does not stay in that "typical" role for very long. While she initially does what Syndrome wants, at the first turn where he shows his true colors, she is willing to give up on him and side with The Incredibles.  The film does not let this woman become another dumb female, made stupid by her feelings towards a man in power. This small, simple role shows the greater depths of how a female character can be better written and better handled. 

So as you can see, while The Incredibles has many themes, many of them that are focused on strong women embracing themselves and their choices - which is very interesting as this movie was written by a man.  This same man is the force behind the sequel. Interestingly, the sequel also has many female leads and themes centered around these female characters. I want to briefly discuss The Incredibles 2 here- I’ll try to avoid major spoilers but if you haven’t seen it, you should do that first. 

The Incredibles 2 begins where the first one left off, so the audience doesn’t have to spend time playing catch up in our characters’ lives- which also means that the characters haven’t had time to grow/change without the viewer knowing. This movie, as shown in previews, focuses on Mrs. Incredible, or as she is more frequently called throughout the movie - Elastigirl - and her own dealings of being a working mother. While the movie plays on many parenting tropes, we see how things were handled quite well by Mrs. Incredible.  Now, I’m sure I will hear the comment that, well, she didn’t have to deal with Jack Jack’s emerging powers as well.  However, she was able to handle Dash’s school issues (a bit more since he was a more of a troublemaker in the first movie), Violet’s constant insecurity, and Jack Jack, who was younger, thus needing more attention. She also had to contend with the issue of her husband’s possible infidelity/secretive nature.  I think it’s fair to say that both parents had their stay-at-home parenting job equally as difficult; yet, Mrs. Incredible never seemed as ruined as Mr. Incredible does in this movie.  Once again we are shown Mrs. Incredible’s extraordinary inner strength- in the first movie, it was her ability to handle the switch from superhero to stay at home mom; now it’s from stay at home mom back to superhero, but one with a family to think of and worry about while she is out on her missions. The movie once again emphasizes how well Mrs. Incredible can handle multiple responsibilities.

Another component to this movie is Edna Mode. She embodies those women who focus on career over family - something she clearly indicates is her own decision. However, we are also given the glimpse into her life where she is able to have her chance to babysit Jack Jack. Despite having little-to-no maternal instincts, she is able to succeed in both competently taking care of the baby, as well as designing a very unique supersuit for him (in one night as she emphasizes). Here we are given the character who is able to enjoy her career life, as well as some of the mothering that is inherent in every woman. She is not simply a character for quippy phrases and humor - she is an example of how a woman can pursue her career without feeling that she lost something because she decided not to become a mother.

We can't discuss this movie without going back to Violet. Just a moment before this movie, she had grown so much and developed into a, somewhat, confident teenager. Yet, much of that is tossed into the wind once the second movie starts and she is back to being this awkward girl trying to find her place in the world. What makes Violet's character great is that she does not revert back to being the shy wall-flower, but now has to grow even more. I find she is one of the most relatable characters because she has so much thrown at her, yet she does not back down and retreat. She continues to stand up and face the world, as crazy as it is. Perhaps this is because of who her mother is and the qualities she has learned from watching Helen throughout her life.

Speaking of watching Helen, we also get introduced to another female character Voyd. And while we don't get to know much about her beyond her superpowers, we do get the glimpse into what happens when females have strong, powerful females to look up to. Voyd was in a similar situation as Violet- she has powers but cannot use them for fear of being called out as a super.  Having Elastigirl once again come forward and show how great being a super can be gives Voyd the confidence to be her true self. I feel like this character is there not only for women, but for anyone out there who is uncomfortable in their own skin and only becomes confident once they see someone else like them become successful and loved. Again, not something solely for the females in the audience, but something they can connect with very deeply. 

Overall, these movies are superb. I think the closer you look at them, the more it becomes spectacular that they are able to say so much about society, particularly about women, despite the fact that they were both written by a man.  Fourteen years is quite a long time for a sequel, but it was worth the wait as we are able to continue this journey with our favorite superheroes - especially our favorite super mom.

The Hidden Wonders of Animal Kingdom

The 20th anniversary of Animal Kingdom is quickly approaching; however, many people still don’t appreciate the hidden wonders of this park. Sure, a cursory jaunt through the park will get you a few thrill attractions and some great views of animals, but a slower walk through the park will allow you to appreciate the little special details.

One of the most interesting thing about this park is that it was imagined, in part, by Joe Rohde, who is highly focused on art and art history. As such, so much of the park has references to objects from the real world and/or was inspired by an artistic piece. Since detailing all of the references throughout the park would encompass a novel, I would like to highlight a few fun aspects in the details of the park for your next visit.

First, all of the details in the park are on purpose and specific in such a way that is easily overlooked by the casual park-goer.  Ever look at the worn away posters in Harambe Market? If you do, you will notice that they advertise the Festival of the Lion King, which is an attraction that received a new theater in Africa.  Speaking of Pandora- have you eaten at Satu’li Canteen? The story of the building is that it was once the commissary for the army while they were outposted on Pandora. It has now been taken back by the Na’vi, but you can still see the rusty stains of where piping was and the signs leading guests to the “Mess Hall” show the “history” of the building. These elements are not “necessary” per se, but they add just that little extra to the park that creates a better guest experience. 

You can’t talk about Animal Kingdom without talking about the animals. Many people brush off Animal Kingdom as simply another zoo and, if they have easy access to a zoo at home, why visit one on vacation? However, the park could not be further from a typical zoo. The traditional cages are nowhere in sight and very few of the animal exhibits actually show the animals in a restricted environment, aside from smaller animals (such as reptiles or bugs) that are housed in glass environments. When you go to view the gorillas, there are no bars; the lions are laying out on their kopjes (rock formations) without any obvious barriers between them and the guests; and the monkeys are simply swinging from their ropes around Asia above guests’ heads. It’s a whole new way to experience and interact with animals that a zoo cannot offer. And, since there is a big emphasis on learning, the park is replete with animal experts offering in depth knowledge of the animals.

Let’s discuss a little bit about the art history elements of the park. Have you ever gazed upon the floating mountains and had your eye drawn up to the sky? This is inspired from the cathedrals from the Gothic era that grew to great heights to bring the eyes to heaven/the glory of God. Have you walked by the Yak and Yeti restaurant? The stone sculpture of the dragon has its origins in Asian art, reflecting an actual piece in the world. The fact that the structures and elements of the park are genuine reflections of real world elements helps cement that immersion.   

It’s these very special elements that make up the park that demonstrate what type of unique experience it offers to guests.  The trick is letting yourself experience it and not just run from attraction to attraction and then leave mid-day. So why not take an entire day and enjoy the park.

Photos by Peter Tedone

A Wrinkle in Time: A Light in the Dark

While the novel had many issues, the movie version of A Wrinkle in Time is a true spark of light for today’s youth and young at heart.

The novel of A Wrinkle in Time was a “classic” with many having read this in school, which also means there was a guide helping younger audiences figure out the meanings and themes behind the novel. Having only read the novel recently without the aid of youth and a guide, I was left underwhelmed by the book.  There was a lot there, don’t get me wrong, with some pretty deep themes for a “children’s book”, and L’Engle’s world building is impressive. The novel fell short in the character development area; this, however, is where the movie truly shines. Let’s do a little deep dive- be aware, SPOILERS ahead!

The novel, written by a female featuring a female lead in a sci-fi/fantasy world, has now been adapted, in part, by a female for the screenplay (Jennifer Lee: Frozen, Wreck-it Ralph, Zootopia), directed by a female director (Ava DuVernay: Selma, Middle of Nowhere, 13th), and again featuring a female lead (Storm Reid: 12 Years a Slave, Sleight).  Not only does the movie continue the tradition of some strong females in main roles, but the movie takes it a step further by putting women of color in some of the main roles. So, again, A Wrinkle in Time is doing something more than simply telling a sci-fi story, and I am all here for it- even more than the book.

Firstly, the movie needs to be recognized for its beauty, from visual effects, to makeup and costumes, to cinematography. The colors pop off the screen and the worlds we encounter are truly something more than even L’Engle herself could have imagined. Even the music complimented the visuals and brought the emotions to a new height.

Our main character, Meg (Reid), is a young girl who has many faults. Yet, the crux of the movie is that these faults are not necessarily things to hide from or be ashamed of.  The movie celebrates Meg’s faults and flips them around to show that what she perceives as faults are not actually negative.  Meg’s character really hit a nerve in me, even while reading the book, because, like her, I also didn’t always understand my worth and didn’t fit in with the popular girls. The movie also shows that even the mean popular girls are struggling with similar issues of confidence issues and fitting into how society thinks girls should look/act. No one is truly spared negativity, showing that “darkness” finds its way into all our lives and it’s up to each of us to find the light inside to fight.

In an age where women are once again standing up for equal status and fighting against misogyny, the idea that a strong, smart girl should be proud of her “faults” is right in the vein of current events. The movie addresses self-doubt, lack of confidence, and the power of self-love- all things that a young female truly needs to hear, but something that is easily relatable for all genders at all age levels.  Even going beyond the idea of the battle between light and dark, the movie focuses on a greater issue, a lack of self-love. In fact, the events of the movie depend on Meg finding that love for herself, from allowing her to tesser “marvelously” to defeating IT- everything succeeding depends on Meg embracing who she is and not being ashamed of it.  Some may argue that Meg finds this love for herself quickly (whereas it does, in fact, take years to learn to love yourself) but the overall theme of positivity is something we need people to start embracing, particularly with the multiple areas negativity surrounds us in our everyday lives, from school/work, social media, and even at home.

If the theme was muddled in the novel due to a lack of character development or imbalanced story telling, or if the story was a bit heady for younger readers, the movie shines a light on what is the most important takeaway- love yourself and those around you and you can fight even the greatest darkness- with a clarity of one looking through Mrs. Who’s glasses.  I highly recommend this movie, not only to parents and young children, but to all who have ever experienced that self-doubt or criticism that causes your self-love to wither. Celebrate the light, and support all the women who brought you this gem, from L’Engle to DuVernay.

Black Panther and Its Leading Ladies

The success of Black Panther has shown that this kind of superhero movie was long overdue. While I can only see the impact of a black superhero movie on the world from an outside perspective, I can relate to another aspect of this movie that has also been long awaited for. Black Panther has shown that it is possible to have strong women in your movie and these characters can make the movie all the more better for having them as key contributors.

One of the big successes of this film, in my opinion, is how the story showcases a strong male lead, both a king and superhero, who surrounds himself with strong female characters. And in doing this, T’Challa’s strength is not diminished- in fact, he is made all the better for listening to the women in his life and seeking out their advice and talents. Let’s look at each one of these females and their contributions to the film.

The biggest star in T’Challa’s life has to be his sister. Shuri stole the movie in an unexpected way for many. She is the youngest character (beyond the flashbacks to Killmonger’s childhood) in the film, but she is never spoken to as if she is the baby. Shuri’s brilliance in the technological field is unsurpassed - one could even argue she is a rival for Tony Stark at this point (and I’m sure many would love if she inherited the Iron Man suit, which I’m sure she would make even better). The entire country of Wakanda, including its king, acknowledges Shuri’s intelligence and defers to her expertise, never questioning or second guessing her work. Shuri’s character shows that being young is not a hindrance and being a nerdy girl is not something to be ashamed of, but instead embraced and nurtured. Many young girls tend to hide the fact that they’re smart and have a brain in between their ears as these are not typically characteristics valued in females. But here we have a smart young black woman who is respected by the entire nation and her “coolness” is not lessened by her brains. By having this character in such a crucial role in the film, truly T’Challa would most likely fail without her tech, Black Panther encourages young girls to embrace their smarts and pursue fields often thought of as “not girly”. I’m excited to see a ton of young girls cosplaying as Shuri at Cons and for Halloween.

Another female character is Okoye, T’Challa’s general. First, I need to highlight the fact that the king’s elite bodyguards are all female, which is totally kickass. A king/leader who surrounds himself with skilled female warriors has roots in African history (here’s a great blog that highlights 5 of them - http://www.blog.kugali.com/five-kick-ass-female-warriors-from-african-history/). While the role of these women in the comics is quite different than what is portrayed in the film, the change from the source works even better with the tone and themes of the overall film. Again, T’Challa’s might is not diminished because he has female bodyguards- both the king and these ladies are respected and admired for their strength. This is something that could easily have become something for Killmonger to mock T’Challa about, particularly with lazy writing, but it is not even touched. No one throughout the film even thinks to diminish the strength or prowess of these women, which reinforces their strength.

Okoye also shows that not only does she act as a bodyguard and general for T’Challa, but she is also one of his closest advisors- she has her own seat on the council and is allowed to speak freely. She lets T’Challa know when she thinks he is messing up and she doesn’t back down just because he is the king- she ribs him for freezing when he sees his ex and the viewer can tell that there is a deeper relationship between these two, but not in a romantic way. The fact that there can be a relationship between a male and female but be completely platonic also lends to the strength of the film- neither character is made more powerful or weaker in the relationship, which so often happens with boy/girl relationships in storytelling. Both are on equal ground and the mutual respect is clear. We also see that Okoye is not just a robot doing her duty for Wakanda. Okoye’s strength lies not only in her battle expertise, but also in her will. When her loyalty to Wakanda is tested, she never backs down or waivers in her conviction to her nation, even to the extent that she would be willing to take down her lover rather than let Wakanda be destroyed through infighting. However, her character is also given the opportunity to show that, despite her strong sense of loyalty to her nation, she also has personal feelings towards what is going on- though she doesn’t allow herself to be swayed by her emotions as her duty comes first. Okoye is a fantastic mirror to T’Challa- she has a fierce loyalty to Wakanda and her king along with supreme warrior status, but also is allowed to be emotional, humorous, witty, smart, and powerful all at the same time. The character was supremely well written and doesn’t allow itself to get caught into typical female cliches that can usually trip up a female character.

We also need to talk about Nakia. We are introduced that she is something special to T’Challa via Okoye’s point not to freeze when he sees her. We find out later that she had a significant role in T’Challa’s life, and that he of course still has feelings for her, but never is the status of their relationship something that interferes with the story.  Of course T’Challa freezes when he sees her again, but this doesn’t cause the mission to fail, mainly because Okoye has his back, as well as an understanding of him and knowing he would likely freeze, she was there.  Nakia also is not put down because she is no longer T’Challa’s significant other- she is still special to him, and to Wakanda, which is highlighted by the fact that she is allowed to continue her efforts as a spy. He doesn’t force her to get back with him now that he is king; he doesn’t diminish her views or beliefs; and he never uses their past relationship as leverage to keep her close.  T’Challa actually listens to her beliefs that Wakanda should be helping the surrounding peoples, which plays a significant part in the end of the film. Too often when a female is expressing her beliefs or saying something of import, the male tends to brush it aside or change the conversation, usually by initiating physical intimacy. Instead T’Challa shows that although he does not necessarily see things the way Nakai, who has been out in the world, does, he is willing to listen to what she has to say and ultimately brings Wakanda’s technology to others for both aid and enrichment.

The strength of T’Challa lies in his ability to surround himself with powerful people, be they male or female, and understand that this does not detract from his own power in any way.  While I focused on the females in his life, T’Challa also shows that he is willing to show weakness if it means making Wakanda better. T’Challa is not above asking M’Baku, the chief he initially defeated in the challenge for the throne, for help when his kingdom was at risk of being ruled by Killmonger. T’Challa again shows that he is strong enough to know when his strength alone is not enough and he requires someone else to help him achieve his goal. I appreciate that this movie not only gives people of color someone to look up to in T’Challa, but also specifically gives female these three strong characters, Suri, Okoye, and Nakia, multiple figures to admire and emulate. The women are not overly sexulalized, though they are all gorgeous in their own right with amazing wardrobes, and their strength and contributions to Wakanda and T’Challa are the highlights of their characters.

After Wonder Woman and Black Panther, the bar is very high for subsequent female roles in superhero movies. I am looking forward to see how Wasp is handled in Ant Man, and even more so, how Captain Marvel is treated since she will be Marvel’s first female solo movie.